Shelby and I haven't been outdoors much the past two years, except around the block and to her new favorite place - the tennis courts. (Below is a picture of Shelby with her cousin, Noah, at Christmas, at her beloved tennis court.) Mostly because both of us are in varying stages of crippling conditions - me with RSD, which attacks my foot, causing it to swell up and turn purple like an eggplant, and burn in horrible pain, and Shelby with arthritis in her legs, hips, and now the vet says, in her spine.
But we have been enjoying springtime in February, especially yesterday when it was about 70 in Asheville. We just hung out in the yard, soaking up the sun like we do on summer days.
Shelby will be 15 years old in less than a month. A few months ago she started losing control of her pooping. Then, she lost her bladder control. Now both are completely gone. We learned - in our wall-to-wall-carpeted home - first to put down towels in the danger zones, then plastic mats, and going full circle to Shelby's puppy days, we are now back to wee-wee pads, which pretty much carpet the house. They work really well at catching all the yucky stuff.
At first, it was pretty horrifying and sickening. This was a dog I could leave for 8-9-10 hours at home and she would never have an accident. And then, it was just total chaos. You never know when she's going to lose it. Or where. And it doesn't matter anymore. You learn to deal with it. She can't help it, and she gets upset with herself. We are now armed and ready with Resolve carpet cleaner, Lysol wipes, baby wipes and carpet deodorizer, and we move on.
This week, the vet said Shelby needs a tooth extracted. It is causing her pain and that's why she hasn't been eating at her usual voracious pace. But it will require anesthesia, and due to her age, that's always risky.
I swore after her last surgery three years ago, when she had a soccer-ball-sized tumor removed from her side, that I'd never put her through surgery again. But I didn't figure in the pain factor. The last thing I can stand is for my little girl to be in pain. I'm torn. I give her extra narcotics. I rub her ear on her non-painful side, and her belly and her legs. I give her peanut butter and I try to be by her side about 23 hours a day.




The Animal Compassion Network presents the 12th annual Prestige Subaru Adoptathon today at Pet Harmony in Asheville.
Come down today, Sunday, May 22, from 11 a.m.-5 p.m. to take home your new family addition.
There will also be free “pawdicures,” pet first aid and CPR demonstrations, a kids corner with a bounce house and dunk tank, low-cost shot clinic and the Animal Services of the Asheville Police Department to answer questions.
Pet Harmony is located at 803 Fairview St., which is just off Hendersonville Road in South Asheville, adjacent to Province 620 restaurant.
For more information, call 828-274-3647.
It might still be a little chilly for the humans among us, but for dogs, especially black Labs like my Shelby, it’s never too cold to go swimming.
Come out to celebrate your dog and their love of water sports at Camp Rockmont in Black Mountain on Sunday, May 8, for Swim With Your Dog Day! This is a nice change of pace for celebrating Mother's Day, especially if you're a mom to a doggie.
Lucky dogs can swim from 1-6 p.m. Two and four legged guests will enjoy pet related vendors, an agility course, photographer on site, tasty food and The Hop ice cream – all on the shore of beautiful Lake Eden. It’s fun for families and kids, even if you don’t have a dog of your own, to benefit a great cause.
Admission is $10 per dog, proceeds benefit Brother Wolf Animal Rescue and Chain-Free Asheville. Sponsored by Bone-A-Fide Bakery & Pet Bakery.
For more information call 828-669-0706 or visit www.bwar.org.
Shelby and I have just released the second printing of "Best Hikes with Dogs: North Carolina," the 2010 edition published by The Mountaineers Books of Seattle. Our first printing was in 2007.People ask me all the time which hike or which trail is my favorite in North Carolina, since my black Lab, Shelby, and I wrote a book about hiking all over North Carolina.
I still can't pick one singular favorite, but I have a couple of places very, very close and dear and special to my heart. If you live in Western North Carolina or have ever been here, it's almost impossible to pick only one — it's just a smorgasbord of outdoors wonders.
But, now we can get it all out there in the open. Land for Tomorrow, a coalition dedicated to supporting the preservation of North Carolina’s land, water and historic places, is holding a contest to pick North Carolina's Top 10 Natural Wonders.

They are now taking online nominations through Thursday (May 6). You can find out more by going to the Land for Tomorrow Facebook page at www.facebook.com/L4TNC or www.landfortomorrow.org.
You can nominate any landscape, natural feature, wildlife or plant life that is unique to North Carolina and should be considered among the state’s greatest natural wonders.
The contest is part of Land for Tomorrow’s effort to highlight past generations’ conservation successes and urge North Carolina lawmakers to continue supporting conservation in our state.
Former Governors Jim Hunt and James Holshouser and an expert panel of North Carolinians will help pick the Top 10.
Panelists include Former Governor Jim Hunt, Charles Frazier, author of "Cold Mountain" and "Thirteen Moons" (and an Asheville resident), and Tift Merritt, Grammy-nominated singer/songwriter, among others.
“Many of North Carolina’s greatest natural wonders are here for us to enjoy because of previous generations’ commitment to conservation,” said Katherine Skinner, steering committee member of Land for Tomorrow and Executive Director for the Nature Conservancy in North Carolina. “We believe that this
contest will show that North Carolinians today still have passion for the state’s natural beauty and want the state to continue protecting new areas.”
The general public has until May 6 to nominate their favorite North Carolina natural wonders for consideration in the contest. Then, the expert panel will narrow down the nominations to a group of finalists. Popular vote online will determine “North Carolina’s Ten Natural Wonders.”
And, as an added bonus, prizes from vendors across North Carolina, including fine art, outdoors equipment and music, will be awarded to participants each weekday of the contest. The grand prize will be awarded on May 18 when the winners are announced.
For more information about Land for Tomorrow, visit www.landfortomorrow.org or www.facebook.com/L4TNC.